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Asian guys can’t DATE 1)Don’t Be Shy! A real sticking point for many Asian guys (other guys too)! If you lack confidence around women, how are they ever going to know what a cool, fun and interesting guy you are? There’s no easy fix for shyness, only push yourself to get out there and talk to people, most girls will respond well to a guy who approaches her as long as he is relaxed and confident. And if the worst scenario happens, she will probably just politely excuse herself! 2 )Nerdiness / Very Conventional Has to do with Asian culture, family and expectations. Go to school, study hard, get good grades then get a good job that pays well. THEN you can get the girl! A bad mindset to have, that you need money and power to get a girl! 3) Body Image / Not Going To The Gym White guys in Asia gets a bad rep for being fat, even if its muscle. Asian guys in the US gets a rep for being skinny! Not fair, but something you can work on. Working out and lifting heavy weights will give you so much return, besides looking great. More confidence, more energy, more inner strenght. Some Asian guys seem to have negative beliefs about dating white women. Some of it may come from not feeling good enough or that there is racism to overcome. It’s true to some degree that there is racism, but thats the same for all interracial dating. If you have enough confidence and believe in your self, others will too. ]]> 5) Approach Anxiety 6) Be More Direct Sexually There is not the same stigma attached to making out or getting physical in public for most white girls, as for asian girls. In fact, if you don’t touch her at all during the first 10 minutes you talk to her, you will probably end up in the dreaded friend zone. The best is of course to make her initiate contact and then escalate. I am a white guy who has lived in Asia for some years now, I know how important fashion and clothes are. Asian fashion is really cool and unique for the most part, so don’t be afraid to import some style! If you have the build (see nr. 3) a good look for asian guys is the bad boy Triad look. I have also seen many asian guys do really well with white girls dressed sharply in more classy clothes. 8 ) Be More Of A Lover Instead Of A Provider The family structure is different in the west. Men and women both work and earn good wages (I know asian women do this too), and women have been told not to depend on men for money, so they don’t place as much importance on job and career in the men they look for. Instead they look for men who can give them powerful emotions and lead her imagination. Try do develop that side of you. Eye contact is a big deal in western societies, not so much in Asia. Hold eye contact with all people, but especially women you would like to meet. Just for a bit longer than feels comfortable and don’t look away first. 10) Not Being Able To Let Go And Have Fun!
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What are the biggest obstacles Asian men face in dating attractive women? That’s a question that I’ve spent a lot of time learning about and more importantly learning to overcome. Why are Asian guys not having the same success dating other women? I think it can be broken down into this: First of all, I think Asian men are too self conscious. Too stuck in their heads worrying about rejection because we don’t want to do something stupid and embarrass ourselves and even worse in front of friends. Some guys feel like any girl will simply reject them, so they don’t even try. But you can’t win without trying, so that’s a bad strategy. I usually see Asian guys react in two ways when it comes to dating failures. The second type of guy reacts, but not in a good way. He approaches women like he has something to prove and it often scares them away. Both ways of reacting are coming from the under-dog frame of mind. Most Asian guys who are like this are so because of conditioning from the media and their parents. Hollywood hasn’t been good for the image of Asian men, that’s for sure. When was the last time you saw a leading character in a movie who was Asian outside of a Kung Fu flick? Well, there’s Keanu Reeves, but most people don’t even know his Asian heritage. On the contrary, Asian guys are often the nerdy, comic relief while the other guys go out and save the world and get the girl. That sucks.After watching garbage like this for years, eventually it begins to take effect. After watching this garbage for years, many Asian guys slowly accept these steretypes unconciously. They assumes this poisonous identity. Add to that the lack of Asian role models in society and you have a generation of Asian men who think that being a nerd is what it means to be Asian, that’s a bunch of nonsense. Letting go of these limiting beliefs is the first and most important step to getting better with women. I think, in the end, women are attracted to charming, confident men. It’s just a natural attraction switch that can’t be turned off. Attraction isn’t a choice. An Asian man who has gotten over his limiting beliefs and have full confidence in himself and his abilities will be very attractive to women of all races. One product that can help you unleash the natural, charming man hidden within you is Asian Dating Superstars. It is a 13 part interview series conducted by Ryker Koh and 13 of the world’s greatest Asian dating coaches. In it, Ryker grills the coaches on how average, everyday-looking Asian men can drastically improve their dating success and win the hearts and minds of the women they fancy. The coaches peel back the curtain and reveal never-released-before secrets, usually reserved for private instruction clients who pay 00s of dollars and lay out the exact blueprint Asian guys can follow to become massively MORE attractive to women, in a few simple, easy-to-follow steps. Clikc the link below for a full review: Johnny Cheng – Asian Dating Superstars
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Why do Asian guys have a hard time dating other women? It seems this is a problem that only affects Asian men. I see white guy, Asian girl couples all the time, but hardly any Asian guy, white girl couples. Why is it so hard for Asian guys to date women of other races? I learned a lot about why. Read on to find out more. I think a lot of it is about Asian culture. I mean, we are raised to be polite and friendly. We value getting along and non-confrontation above standing out and getting what is ours. Your average caucassian guy is rude by Asian standards, but he isn’t afraid of putting it out there and doing something crazy to get the attention of a girl. We on the other hand are raised to conform, to not stand out in a crowd, if we did, we could be sure of being punished as children. Is it any wonder, most Asian guys act the way they do? I think there is a lot to be proud of in Asian culture, but I also think the average Asian guy is to rigid and stone faced in social settings. It’s a product of social conditioning and also stereotypes and neither help in getting the girl. White girls may see a guy like that as being cold, distant and aloof. Someone who may seem interesting but who doesn’t open up, who isn’t willing to share himself and take a chance. Even worse, they may think – ‘creep’ or ‘weirdo’ – and stay away and that stings. It’s a bad place to be. I have spent a lot of time really thinking why this problem only affects Asian guys. Why is it so hard for Asian men to date white women or any women of other race? Johnny Cheng – Asian Dating Superstars
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Download: usershare.net A new parody to Fireflies by Owl City! Beat remade by Klassic! Featuring: D-Pryde Mrdangelo & Richard Lyrics: you would not believe your eyes if 10 million asian guys sneaked in your room as you fell asleep with wide eyes and gelled up hair and video games everywhere you think we’re small when it comes down to down there I’d like to make myself believe that all their food has, MSG it’s hard to say that every asian dude looks like jet lee and every grampa looks like mr. miyagi see i am an asian boy in china i make your toys i’ll do your homework, i’m good at math be careful ill eat your dog my mom works a nail shop and my idol is william hung (Chorus) CREDITS GO TO JAY RENZ FOR THE IDEA, AND THE DAD VOICE AT THE END! More parodies coming soon!